Let me start off saying that having separate accounts is not a bad thing. For many - it is a very good and workable solution. For my honey and I we have always gone the joint route and it has worked out well for us.
In planning for his deployment, we created a second account that is techincally joint as well, but it's really his account. We set it up joint so I could move money into it quickly if needed, but all and all I don't touch it or monitor it besides making sure it doesn't say zero or anything negative.
He got a chance to call me today and we talked about me moving some money into it soon. It kind of bums me out because it makes it feel even more real that he is gone. We've been married for over 14 years and we always keep our assets together. It just feels weird to have something this separate set up.
All in all I have nothing to complain about and am trying to make the best of it while we are apart, but it just still feels a little melancholy sometimes when I see our two separate accounts.
separate accounts are bumming me out
January 26th, 2010 at 05:05 am
January 26th, 2010 at 06:17 pm 1264529837
We actually have two joint checking accounts that we use for different purposes, but I have thought one of them could become 'his' while away if necessary.
Take care and thanks for sharing!
January 26th, 2010 at 06:32 pm 1264530755
January 26th, 2010 at 10:35 pm 1264545319
Can either of you tell me how your each of your LES looks? Is the fed and state tax refunded on the 15th or the 1st? Or does it even show up. I'm trying to refresh my mind from last time. I think hostile fire pay is on the 15th and FSA and Hardship Duty pay are split evenly on each check is that right? I don't need exact numbers just how the combat pays and taxes show up on the LES's. Thanks!
January 27th, 2010 at 07:43 am 1264578239
We are on our second military paycheck since he went active and the numbers are still wonky for a variety of reasons. I don't expect I'm going to see a normal check for atleast a couple more cycles. As long as I can pay the bills, guess I can't complain too much
January 27th, 2010 at 02:24 pm 1264602264
I think it's really sweet though that you feel this way.
January 27th, 2010 at 05:19 pm 1264612754
Take care!
February 1st, 2010 at 04:53 am 1264999986